By Princess Kali
Since becoming more familiar with the blog world, one of my favorite things this time of year is everyone posting their gift recommendations, so of course I had to get in on the fun!
I’ve been involved in the adult industry for 10 years and I have to admit, I’ve been a pretty big shopper the whole time. Due to being a professional dominatrix I have been able to try out a wide variety of products from vendors all over the world. I have developed some particular favorites that I’d like to share with you, these are all my personal recommendations.
– Looking for some sexy vintage lingerie for yourself or your partner (or well, both of your enjoyment ;) Check out Girdle Bound for a huge selection with a great range of sizes. They feature affordable prices and a wide range of colors and styles. Check out their promotional video on Kink Academy to enjoy a tour of their wares.
– Though NJOY is on most bloggers love list, I can’t help but include them, their stainless steel sex-toys are so top-of-the-line that I know I would be remiss if I left them off. Each of the styles is worth every penny, and if you have a size queen on your gift list, then you will be the holiday hero with the NJOY Eleven
– If you’re looking to explore the world of BDSM and expand your bedroom skills, then a membership to Kink Academy would make a wonderful gift, either for yourself or your partner. I admit, I am the founder of the site, so I recognize that I’m biased…but it’s such an amazing resource for such an absurdly low price (which won’t last forever!) that it really is the gift that keeps on giving.
– My favorite place to buy floggers and all kinds of specialized whips is Details Toys* and their rose flogger is a particularly special gift for the holidays’.
– Another great kinky toy (and so classic) is the cane, and I never buy from anyone but Canes 4 pain where you can find basic canes, or customized works of art (that can leave lovely welts on your lovers body!).
– More into restraint than pain? Then check out Leather By Danny for all your bondage needs. I have been a big fan for years and featured his products as one of our earliest ‘favorite vendor’ on Kink Academy, see the clip here
– A popular gift (and an incredibly meaningful gift for many) is a collar, and Liquid Nymph has a beautiful selection of frilled, lace, beaded and decorative options.
– Or, consider getting tickets to a fabulous kinky play event where you can socialize, go to classes and generally have a wonderful time. I highly recommend the Dark Odyssey events in the DC area, registration is now open for their February event Winter Fire so you can get discounted rates for a limited time. Their events are well worth the cost and make for a great experience together!
– Last but certainly not least, you can take the anti-consumerist route and make a donation to a worthy non-profit to celebrate the holidays. Donate to Scarleteen and help keep the best sex-education site for young adults afloat. Or make a donation to NCSF which fights for the rights of consenting adults to enjoy BDSM, swinging and polyamorous lifestyles.
All of these businesses and non-profits are run by individuals or a small dedicated team of people. All of them work to create quality products and offer excellent customer service, and in this age of huge corporations it can be extra fulfilling to support entrepreneurs and small personally owned and managed businesses.
*None of these companies/organizations have asked me to post, nor do I profit from any affiliates (with the exception of the Kink Academy which I mentioned above). These are my genuine, personal recommendations.
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