By AliceSin Aerie
If it’s happened once it’s happened a thousand times: You meet someone you think you might like so you make plans, or at least make plans to communicate again, only to have them fall off the face of the planet.
Dec 312013
Dec 292013
By T.M. Bernard
”Art can be a life shaking experience, or an intimate rendezvous. For me it is both.” – Autumn Skye Morrison
Autumn Skye Morrison is a Canadian painter whose nude art reflects a rare combination; female nudes swathed in broad strokes of color, some paintings set against a backdrop of stark gray
Dec 272013
By DNGG
Many years ago, as a bright-eyed and optimistic undergraduate college student, I attempted to join my university’s LBGTQ (Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay, Transgendered, and Queer) organization. Notice I said “attempted,” not succeeded in joining.
Dec 252013
By Viola
When I was in college and stuck in the middle of writing a paper, I would take a shower. I liked showering in the elegant bathrooms in the dorms – the stalls themselves were beautiful, white and gray marble that echoed the splattering of water, the black and white basket-weave tile carefully preserved on the floor. Each shower-head had a plastic card hanging from it with instructions on how to perform a breast self-exam.
Dec 252013
At Burning Man this year, I went to a workshop called “What Is Tantric Sexual Healing And Is It For You?” It was a Q&A discussion, with a panel consisting of two male healers, and a husband and wife who practiced as a pair. The husband told a story about a woman who had been […]
Dec 232013
For a proper Fantasy Sex Life, you need to have your Sex Closet fully stocked and prepared at all times. My husband and I have spent years building up our Sex Closet. Now it’s full of clothes and play things and costumes and other crazy good stuff. We don’t put on full out costumes every time we […]
Dec 202013
If you follow the world of sex and law (as I assume you do), you may have noticed that the internets are ablaze with enthusiasm over a judge in Utah taking a slice out of the bigamy law. The short form of the long story is that the Brown family, featured on reality TV show […]
Dec 192013
By Widow Centauri
Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex (Pat Califia 1994, Cleis Press. San Francisco)
Public Sex is a series of articles that Pat Califia wrote prior to the mid 1990s. If you are not familiar with Pat Califia you are either new to contemporary queer literature or you have been living under a rock. Califia is one of the leading queer writers of modern times.
Dec 172013
Dear Sarah,
My partner and I are just starting to explore service-giving & receiving, and I must confess that I’m stumped as to how to start. Yesterday, I helped her dress and tied her shoes, and I enjoyed it greatly, but I’m not sure where else to go. Please help?
-A.
Dec 152013
by T.M. Bernard
Sex and food are two primal urges with more in common than our basic survival. Who can argue that lusting after one another over a good meal is double the corporeal pleasure? On the other hand, gluttony of either leaves lovers sore and aching when they fail to say “enough” or “slow down” before that final tempting morsel.