At Burning Man this year, I went to a workshop called “What Is Tantric Sexual Healing And Is It For You?” It was a Q&A discussion, with a panel consisting of two male healers, and a husband and wife who practiced as a pair. The husband told a story about a woman who had been […]
For a proper Fantasy Sex Life, you need to have your Sex Closet fully stocked and prepared at all times. My husband and I have spent years building up our Sex Closet. Now it’s full of clothes and play things and costumes and other crazy good stuff. We don’t put on full out costumes every time we […]
Ever since that Sex and the City episode, the Rabbit vibrator has quickly become a girl’s best friend. Yet while the rabbit remains the sex toy industry’s worst kept secret, with all manner of variations and types floating around on the market today, it also demonstrates some of the many glorious enhancements made to our […]
Pick up artists. Men who “run game” on women. We’ve all heard of them- but why do we never hear about female pick up artists running game on men? I referred to girls trying to get boys into bed as “playing the game” way back when I was a teen, before PUAs were a thing. […]
When I first ventured into the world of BDSM at the request of my partner, I was hesitant and slightly appalled at the thought of granting her request for a whipping, that would leave marks..! I had never ‘beaten’ a woman before, my mind racing.. wondering what my parents would think of this if they […]
I am a fan of public play. I like what other people bring to spaces. The energy, the voyeurism, a sexy soundtrack. I also like the safety that comes with public play. Knowing that if something went wrong there would be back up close by. So I wind up doing the vast majority of my […]
Mistress, GODDESS, PLEASE!!! I long to be yours and to serve you! My body is prone at your feet! You are the most beautiful woman ever… Goddess you are superior to me…! i am not worthy to kiss Your lovely toes… I’m a female dominant, which means opening up my inbox means being ready for […]
Yes. Why? It’s 2013 and your sex toys are stuck in the 90’s. What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you think of sex toys? Tacky neon-colored phallic objects that need batteries and are made from plastic and smells like… plastic. No wonder why the idea of bringing these things to bed (much […]
“Alyssa, Come here!” A text from my friend’s recent one night stand read, “Do you have an STD?”, followed by a series of photos of his penis with red, open sores on it. This is definitely an awkward way to start the STI/STD convo. “I’m a whore,” she cried. I was horrified that my friend […]
Believe it or not, there are a lot of junky methods out there that are commonly thought to help you last longer in bed but that actually create more problems than they (try to) solve. The worst thing about it is that some guys see a slight improvement when using them for the first time […]