Dear Sarah,
My partner and I are just starting to explore service-giving & receiving, and I must confess that I’m stumped as to how to start. Yesterday, I helped her dress and tied her shoes, and I enjoyed it greatly, but I’m not sure where else to go. Please help?
-A.
Dear Sarah,
I am a Dominant looking for a service submissive, what is best way to screen someone?
Signed, K.
By Sarah Sloane
Dear Sarah,
I identify as a slave in a full-time Master/slave dynamic with a strong service component to our relationship. I also suffer from chronic pain which has persisted over a year and escalated in the last few months.
By GrayDancer
“It’s like this,” JP said, gesturing at the glass of wine between us. It was back-lit by the small candle on the table, next to the plate with the three truffles – correction, one truffle and two half-eaten truffles – and adjacent to a pinot grigio shedding an amber glow.
By Miss Indigo
I knew this moment would come. The moment where my partner would ask me to try something we have never tried before. For months, we have been carefully watching other couples, trying to learn
Dear Sarah,
I’m a service submissive that is currently looking for a Dominant, and in the meantime I’d like to improve my skills. Do you have any recommendations for ‘polishing’ up my service skills?
Dear Sarah:
As a service submissive I know my voice should be respectful when I’m addressing my dominant, but I have a naturally bratty tone to my voice. What can I do to improve that, and make sure that I sound as polite as I want to?
“I enjoy service submission, but sometimes dislike the actual assignments given by Dominants. How do I do things well, when I don’t want to do it?”
That’s totally an understandable situation. I personally hated cleaning the glass & frames for the artwork in my Leather Daddy’s house, to the point where I would literally have to fight myself to do it – so I definitely can relate! Here are a few things to think about…